Tuesday, March 15th, 2022
By The Harpins
Are you interested in the idea of eloping, but unsure if it really is right for you? These top 19 reasons to elope in 2022 will leave you with a detailed understanding if an elopement in the right choice for you.
Well, you came to the right place. This is a complete picture to what it means to elope. Eloping, over a traditional wedding day, is not for everyone. So, these are the top 8 reasons to elope.
After this post, you should fully understand if the elopement path is right for your wedding day. Everyone has their own version of who they are, and for many that doesn’t include a traditional wedding.
An elopement is an intimate experience, either between just the two of you or a small group. If you are sick to your stomach thinking about the stress, headaches, and constant running around on your day to say hi to distant family than an elopement could be the perfect solution.
For more information on learning about what an elopement is, check out 5 Myths About Elopements, or 7 Major Differences Between Elopements vs. Traditional Weddings.
Now is the time to figure out if an elopement is the right fit for you and your partner. Elopements are the perfect alternative when a traditional wedding is not for you. However, eloping is not for everyone! So, make sure to do some research before deciding to ditch a traditional wedding.
Have you ever thought about it? Do you want a big fancy wedding for yourself, or to impress others?
The number one reason to elope is to create an authentic experience just for the two of you. Instead of having a day for others, you get to experience your biggest day in your life in your exact style.
Isn’t your wedding day suppose to be one of the most important in your life?
Well, choosing to elope is all about you. You choose where you want to go, what you want to do, and who you want to share it with. No longer will you feel obligated to invite a random cousin you haven’t seen in 7 years.
Elopements are an unbelievable option for you if you feel as though a traditional wedding is not for you.
Authenticity emphasizes your true self. If you feel as though a traditional wedding doesn’t feel “right”, then start thinking about how an elopement could be a true reflection of your love.
An elopement will give you the freedom to commit to one another is the best way that fits your personality.
Don’t regret your wedding day! Instead, fill the day with an activity that you both love to do. Is there a better way to spend one of the most important days of your life?
So, if you both enjoy hiking, then consider an elopement where you climb your favorite mountain for sunrise. Or if you both are avid beach goers, why not check off a tropical island you have been dying to go to, with a romantic catamaran cruise. The options are endless!
At the end of the day, it is your wedding. Do not feel trapped into doing anything for someone else. This day is all about you, so don’t feel bad for focusing on what you want.
Choose a wedding day that reflects who you are and where you want to go. This day is about you. The real you.
Vows are meant to be personal and have meaning. Locations of elopements usually have significance in your relationship. When you choose to make a promise to the love of your life, doing this in a place you and your partner value is an unbeatable experience.
Is the idea of being the center of attention make you feel on edge? Are you looking for an experience that provides more intimacy?
Elopements provide a much more intimate wedding day. Often, you will miss the small, special moments when having a large wedding. Yes, you will be the center of attention as it is your day, but in a much different way. You will not have a huge crowd staring at you for the entire day.
Eloping gives you the space to be who you are. You can be completely vulnerable on your wedding day, without worrying about anyone else being around. You get to be yourself.
Family drama can ruin your day. It is hard to escape a ceremony, like a wedding, without multiple disagreements from so many different people. Especially, when your family is not super close.
Don’t let family drama ruin or change how you behave on your big day. The worst thing to do on your wedding day is to worry about pleasing everyone. Your wedding day is your day. Make sure to keep that in mind.
If you are looking to avoid the family drama, you could choose to elope! Eloping is an opportunity to prevent the drama and stress associated with traditional weddings.
Do what makes the most sense for your life and prioritize your relationship with your spouse! You don’t need any excuse to elope, even if you have a healthy relationship with your families. If you want to elope, then you should do it! Be bold and make the best decision for you.
Traditional weddings require your constant attention. You are basically the host of a large gathering.
Now, would you rather be the host, or enjoy every single moment with the person you committing to? You will feel as a host with a large wedding, as you spend most of the night wandering around thanking all your guests for coming.
Big weddings rarely allow you the time for just the two of you. Although it is great to have all the people you care about in one location to celebrate, it is near impossible to have a meaningful experience with everyone in such a short period of time.
Are you ready for an adventure? Eloping is right for you if you want an epic experience over the norm. Traditional weddings are great for some, while others want more out of their wedding day experience.
The best parts of life are off the beaten path. Are you satisfied with the status quo? Or are you looking for something unique? If you are comfortable with taking a risk and stepping outside the norm, then an elopement could be the path to creating your vision.
The possibilities are endless when it comes to choosing an adventure. The only requirement is to have the courage to say yes to this journey. If you see life as the grandest of adventure, no matter what, then you are just steps away from creating a once-in-a-lifetime elopement experience.
Not only are your photographer and videographer capturing beautiful shots, they also serve as your tour guides throughout the day.
If you have ever been to a wedding where the photographer and videographer seem to be flies on the wall? Well, not when you head out for a full day elopement. Your photo and video duo will be right there leading you through all of the action. This allows for you to not only sit back and relax during your day but also creates a space for true connection with your vendor team, trust me they want to have just as much fun as you.
Have you been dying to check off an item on your couple’s bucket list? Well, this is the time to get a head start on your list!
Eloping does not mean you have to go out and do something crazy, like skydiving. But eloping does mean going on some type of adventure, however, what that adventure is depends on your style. Being an adventurer at heart is a lifestyle of risk-taking, vulnerability, and stepping off the path everyone else is on.
This is a HUGE chapter you are starting in your life. Why not start it off in the right fashion?
If you see life as a grand adventure, then it only makes sense to start your life together in this way. Whether you head into the streets of NYC or hike up a mountain for sunrise in the Rockies, it is totally up to you! An adventure is all about doing something meaningful and unique to just the two of you!
That’s the best part. Elopements and adventure go together quite nicely.
Weddings are expensive. One of the biggest expenses would be the venue. In fact, many venues do not even offer much, when compared to the enormous cost.
Elopements are not always cheaper. The reason to elope is not always to save money. An elopement is an investment, just like deciding to have a traditional wedding.
The only variance is that you are choosing to spend the money in a different manner.
Have you dreamed of getting married in an awesome location? Well, if you decide to elope that may become a reality. Elopements offer much more flexibility when determining a location.
There are many locations around the world where you would not be able to have a huge wedding. But eloping opens up the possibilities quite a bit. Obviously, you still can’t just get married wherever you want. Some destinations are still off limits, and others require special permits like national parks. However, your options are much grander when choosing to elope over having a traditional wedding.
Elopements are less stressful for the couple than traditional weddings. That does not mean no stress.
Your elopement team will be there to help you through the process. The differences is your team is much more involved than with a traditional wedding. On top of this, elopements typically require less planning, thus creating less stress.
The back and forth with vendors is often what leads to the most stressful situations.
Another huge area of stress with traditional weddings is having to follow someone else’s schedule. You are not always in total control of choosing to spend more time taking pictures, or eating dinner. You have a schedule you must follow. Sometimes intimate moments are cut short, as you are rushing around.
Of course, you still have some type of schedule on your big day, but much more laid-back. The last thing you want is to get pulled in every direction while trying to enjoy your wedding.
The planning process for a big wedding starts out super fun. The day comes where you finally get to go dress shopping, look at venues, and pick out the centerpieces. But very quickly it becomes a nightmare. Every single day is filled with question after question flowing through your mind.
The planning process of a traditional wedding is time-consuming to say the least. Headaches after headache is normal during this process.
Elopements can easily minimize or even eliminate the overwhelming job of planning a wedding. Give yourself a breather. The elopement process will free you from the headaches of planning a traditional wedding. Of course, there is some simple planning required from elopements. There is still effort required on your part, but it is much less.
You still need to figure out what to wear, write your vows, and find a photographer/videographer for your big day. We, as a photography and videography team, will help assist you find the dream location and create an amazing experience for you.
That’s it. And maybe sent out a few invitations if you are planning to bring a small group with you. Start the new journey you are about to embark on in the right way – happy, relaxed, and in love.
One of the top 19 reasons to elope in 2022 is because you will have an awesome media team! You build a close and personal relationship with your photographer and videographer, as they manage your entire elopement.
Your media team works to create an experience, rather than just being there to take your pictures and video. Along with creating an experience, your photo and video duo work closely with other vendors to help relieve the stress from yourself.
Just because you elope, doesn’t mean you skip out on awesome photos and video. In fact, it is quite the opposite. This couldn’t be more wrong.
Elopements offer the perfect opportunity to get incredible photos and video that reflect who you are as a couple. There is nothing better than an authentic video of the two of you spending a day that reflects the meaning behind your relationship.
Traditional wedding photos are posed, awkward, fake, and just straight up lack the real emotion. However, when you decide to elope this is not the case. You will have the raw emotions behind how you feel about each other in a true and authentic fashion.
Plus, you could be at the top of a mountain, or strolling through the city you had your first date in. There is meaning behind the photos and video when you choose to elope.
An elopement allows the time to enjoy the present moment on your wedding day, while also being able to capture some incredible photos. Memories are vital. A big wedding pulls you in all different directions constantly throughout the night.
The goal throughout your elopement is to cherish each moment on your wedding day, while creating the most authentic photos and video for you to relive this day for the rest of your lives.
Traditional weddings are centered around materialism, as elopements main priority is creating an awesome experience. The truth is traditional weddings are full of stuff, with little out of the box experience. If you are looking for experience, then that may be one of the top reasons to elope this year.
Consider checking off an item on your bucket list while getting married! The bonus is that you will get to do it with the most important person in your life, on a huge day in your life. How could it get better?
If you value experiences over tangible items than eloping is right for you.
You have free range to ditch the typical dress attire. Wear whatever you want on your elopement, especially if you plan on doing something active.
Trade the heels for some hiking boots to reach the summit of your favorite mountain. The choice is totally up to you with what you wear for the day.
Traditional weddings are usually large celebrations with all your friends and family. This is where elopements differ and cause many couples to question if it is right for them.
Just because you choose to elope does not mean you can’t have a party to celebrate! Yes, you probably won’t have a huge, formal get together. However, you can still invite all your friends and family together to enjoy each other’s company.
A casual party, one that does not have to break the bank, is a great way to get the best of both worlds!
In fact, many couples couldn’t wait for their wedding day to be over. It’s sad that one of the best days of their life they are just wishing away. Please don’t let that be you.
Traditional weddings come with high expectations where everything is expected to be perfect, but in reality, the stress causes you to dread your big day.
So, if planning a traditional wedding gives you a rush of anxiety, then maybe it’s time to think about an elopement. You should want your wedding day to never end, rather than be relieved once your day is over.
However, you don’t have to feel that way. Choose to create a wedding day celebration that brings you the most happiness. So, if planning a traditional wedding isn’t your style, then you may want to consider a relaxed and fun alternative. Elopements offer a unique, fun, and stress-free way to enjoy the start to a new life with your one love.
The big difference is not the price. You could spend the same amount on a traditional wedding, as you do on an elopement. You still invest the same amount into your wedding day, but the investment is quite different.
Why spend a ton of money for something you aren’t in love with? When you could take the same amount of money and experience something you have been dying for your entire life?
If you believe an elopement is right for you, then we would love to help turn your dream into reality! Now, it is time to start planning, but don’t worry you just tell us your vision and we will make it happen for you!
A stress-free, enjoyable approach to getting married. You already know how important it is to document your wedding day. We can help you elope in New England, anywhere in the United States, or even in an international destination.
The question is, where are you going to elope?
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